Indonesian Dating Sites: How to be Safe When Arranging a Date

Indonesian dating sites are becoming increasingly popular, not only with Indonesians of both genders, but also with western men. Indonesian men and women who want to meet others like themselves can use online Indonesian dating sites to do so.  In fact many such websites have been specifically set up to enable Asians to meet one another. However, the best websites are those that offer their services worldwide, so that you can find partners worldwide.

Irrespective of the type of dating site you use, however, you have to make sure that you are safe when dating online. When using Indonesian dating sites to meet people, you never know who you are chatting with online until you meet them.  Unfortunately a few young women make the wrong decisions and come into danger, and it is not unknown for the same to happen to young men.

Online dating sites in Jakarta are not only intended for western men to meet young Asian women, but you can also them to meet your future partner if you are an Indonesian man or woman. Many people have the wrong idea about Indonesian dating sites, and enter them looking for something other than long-term relationships.

This is not restricted to Asian websites of course, and is a fact of life the world over.  However, as the internet becomes increasingly opened up throughout Asia, those that have failed, or perhaps even succeeded, in the west are now looking to Asian websites, such as Jakarta dating sites for their prey.

There are certain steps that can be taken to make your Indonesian online dating experience a good one and very safe, and those that follow this advice generally have no problems with their online dating. The first rule is not to give away too much information in your Profile if you are requested to provide one. There is some information that can be used to identify your home address, and once somebody has that you can be in trouble if they are the wrong type of person.

Let's not kid ourselves that such people don't exist, because they do, and young girls do come to serious harm by being naïve on online dating sites in Jakarta and anywhere else in the world. It happens in New York, London, Paris and Jakarta - it is not peculiarly Asian. It is a fact of life, and one that we must take steps to deal with and providing the minimum information on your Profile is one of these.

Sure, state your interests and the type of person you are - what sports you like, your favorite music and authors, but there is no need to provide more private information at that stage, and anybody that insists on having it must be regarded with suspicion.  A woman's instincts are rarely wrong, and if you get a bad feeling then close the connection. Young men are more trusting, but even they can take the same steps, including those detailed below. 

Never give your home address, your email address, your website URL or your telephone number. Never give your school, college or place of work or even what doctor you attend. The first four can be used to positively identify you and where you live without any photograph or even your name, and the last four if they have either a photograph or a name.

Never agree to a date without you having a friend there with you, and always make sure that they have provided a photograph.  It's not so easy for a 55 year to pass themselves off as 25 if you have a photograph, and if you do arrange a date, make sure they have some identifying feature so that you can observe them from a distance. Some will provide a false photograph, but they are unlikely to get plastic surgery before the date!  If they don't fit the bill then just go and create another login for your Indonesian dating site. That's easy to arrange.

The very great majority of people have a great time using Jakarta dating sites, and many meet their eventual lifetime partners there. However, there are the very few who have the bad luck, and by following the above advice you can make sure that you are not one of them.

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Why are you reading this? Have you met an Asian girl? Do you really want to get her? Did you meet her in school, at a restaurant? And now you want to put the moves on her, but you have no idea how to go about it? Does her friends cockblock you and make her hard to approach? Does she seem reluctant to go out with someone who isn't Asian? Is it just that you want to meet and seduce attractive Asian girls?

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Japanese, Chinese, Thai, Filipina? Asian cultures are similar even if different, at least compared to Western countries. If you want to go out with Asian girls, you must know where she is from culturally and how you can use that information to present yourself to her as boyfriend material. She may even like you a lot, but if you can't get the acceptance of her social circle, her friends and family is never going to let that happen! This goes for Asian women in Asia as well as everywhere else.

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Advice For Asian Guys Who Want To Date White Girls!

1)Don't Be Shy!

A real sticking point for many Asian guys (other guys too)! If you lack confidence around women, how are they ever going to know what a cool, fun and interesting guy you are? There's no easy fix for shyness, only push yourself to get out there and talk to people, most girls will respond well to a guy who approaches her as long as he is relaxed and confident. And if the worst scenario happens, she will probably just politely excuse herself! 

2 )Nerdiness / Very Conventional

Has to do with Asian culture, family and expectations. Go to school, study hard, get good grades then get a good job that pays well. THEN you can get the girl! A bad mindset to have, that you need money and power to get a girl!

3) Body Image / Not Going To The Gym

White guys in Asia gets a bad rep for being fat, even if its muscle. Asian guys in the US gets a rep for being skinny! Not fair, but something you can work on. Working out and lifting heavy weights will give you so much return, besides looking great. More confidence, more energy, more inner strenght.

4) You deserve white girls!

Some Asian guys seem to have negative beliefs about dating white women. Some of it may come from not feeling good enough or that there is racism to overcome. It's true to some degree that there is racism, but thats the same for all interracial dating. If you have enough confidence and believe in your self, others will too.

5) Approach Anxiety

Cultural maybe? It is normal for asians to do everything in (big) groups and stay with the group the entire time. But if you never approach a girl you like you won't get the chance to show her what a great guy you are. Most women respect a guy who sees something he likes and goes for it. This is even more true for white girls, because they expect a man to show his interest in her more directly and not need a support group!

6) Be More Direct Sexually

There is not the same stigma attached to making out or getting physical in public for most white girls, as for asian girls. In fact, if you don't touch her at all during the first 10 minutes you talk to her, you will probably end up in the dreaded friend zone. The best is of course to make her initiate contact and then escalate.

7) Have A Good Sense Of Fashion

I am a white guy who has lived in Asia for some years now, I know how important fashion and clothes are. Asian fashion is really cool and unique for the most part, so don't be afraid to import some style! If you have the build (see nr. 3) a good look for asian guys is the bad boy Triad look. I have also seen many asian guys do really well with white girls dressed sharply in more classy clothes.

8 ) Be More Of A Lover Instead Of A Provider

The family structure is different in the west. Men and women both work and earn good wages (I know asian women do this too), and women have been told not to depend on men for money, so they don't place as much importance on job and career in the men they look for. Instead they look for men who can give them powerful emotions and lead her imagination. Try do develop that side of you.

9) Hold Eye Contact!

Eye contact is a big deal in western societies, not so much in Asia. Hold eye contact with all people, but especially women you would like to meet. Just for a bit longer than feels comfortable and don't look away first.

10) Not Being Able To Let Go And Have Fun!

Asian culture generally encourages that you hide your true emotions in public, but western women will feel disconnected from you, if you don't show and share your emotions. It is also ok to disagree openly with something she says and say EXACTLY what you mean. Within common sense of course!

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It's really easy for foreigners to date in Japan--especially men. Westerners, especially--the more Aryan, the better (I hate to say it, but it's true)--have a huge 'exotic appeal' to many Japanese, especially in the younger generations.
Though this isn't necessarily true for all, many women of the younger generations have gotten bolder, and it's by and large acceptable for girls to pursue guys. (Many of these same young women bemoan the lack of confident, assertive "knights in shining armor". But they date the shy guys anyways.) So I can imagine it wouldn't be too difficult for a shy guy to date.

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