Inside Dating in Asia

17Aug/100

Advice For Asian Guys Who Want To Date White Girls!

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by jpellgen

Advice For Asian Guys Who Want To Date White Girls!

1)Don't Be Shy!

A real sticking point for many Asian guys (other guys too)! If you lack confidence around women, how are they ever going to know what a cool, fun and interesting guy you are? There's no easy fix for shyness, only push yourself to get out there and talk to people, most girls will respond well to a guy who approaches her as long as he is relaxed and confident. And if the worst scenario happens, she will probably just politely excuse herself! 

2 )Nerdiness / Very Conventional

Has to do with Asian culture, family and expectations. Go to school, study hard, get good grades then get a good job that pays well. THEN you can get the girl! A bad mindset to have, that you need money and power to get a girl!

3) Body Image / Not Going To The Gym

White guys in Asia gets a bad rep for being fat, even if its muscle. Asian guys in the US gets a rep for being skinny! Not fair, but something you can work on. Working out and lifting heavy weights will give you so much return, besides looking great. More confidence, more energy, more inner strenght.

4) You deserve white girls!

Some Asian guys seem to have negative beliefs about dating white women. Some of it may come from not feeling good enough or that there is racism to overcome. It's true to some degree that there is racism, but thats the same for all interracial dating. If you have enough confidence and believe in your self, others will too.

5) Approach Anxiety

Cultural maybe? It is normal for asians to do everything in (big) groups and stay with the group the entire time. But if you never approach a girl you like you won't get the chance to show her what a great guy you are. Most women respect a guy who sees something he likes and goes for it. This is even more true for white girls, because they expect a man to show his interest in her more directly and not need a support group!

6) Be More Direct Sexually

There is not the same stigma attached to making out or getting physical in public for most white girls, as for asian girls. In fact, if you don't touch her at all during the first 10 minutes you talk to her, you will probably end up in the dreaded friend zone. The best is of course to make her initiate contact and then escalate.

7) Have A Good Sense Of Fashion

I am a white guy who has lived in Asia for some years now, I know how important fashion and clothes are. Asian fashion is really cool and unique for the most part, so don't be afraid to import some style! If you have the build (see nr. 3) a good look for asian guys is the bad boy Triad look. I have also seen many asian guys do really well with white girls dressed sharply in more classy clothes.

8 ) Be More Of A Lover Instead Of A Provider

The family structure is different in the west. Men and women both work and earn good wages (I know asian women do this too), and women have been told not to depend on men for money, so they don't place as much importance on job and career in the men they look for. Instead they look for men who can give them powerful emotions and lead her imagination. Try do develop that side of you.

9) Hold Eye Contact!

Eye contact is a big deal in western societies, not so much in Asia. Hold eye contact with all people, but especially women you would like to meet. Just for a bit longer than feels comfortable and don't look away first.

10) Not Being Able To Let Go And Have Fun!

Asian culture generally encourages that you hide your true emotions in public, but western women will feel disconnected from you, if you don't show and share your emotions. It is also ok to disagree openly with something she says and say EXACTLY what you mean. Within common sense of course!

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25Jun/108

I want to talk to a cool filipina in myasianrose dating. I’ not full member as it’s apaid service. What to do?

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by jpellgen

Question by Johnny D: I want to talk to a cool filipina in myasianrose dating. I' not full member as it's apaid service. What to do?
I'm non paid subscriber to myasianrose asia dating for a while; I’m not yet full member as it is a paid subscription. I cannot send messages to the girls. I’m hesitating if I should pay to upgrade my membership. There’s a Filipina girl that looks really cool in that site and that I really like the face. Is there anyone out there that I can borrow gold membership for myasianrose for just one hour - the time to send message to that girl? what to do, should I just pay ?

Best answer:

Answer by allan y
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31May/100

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29Apr/105

I want to know if YahooJapan Lottery is real or just another scam message?

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26Apr/101

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22Apr/1030

Why does he want her now, and not me? Is it looks or religion? Is she prettier? (Pics Included) PLZ HELP?

Ok, my best guy friend and I have been friends for almost 3 years. ok, so then it started going to the next level. ok, it always kind of has. but i really love him. he loves me. and i dont know, i thought eventually we were heading towards something. but he is a different religion then me. and he went to visit his country over the summer. when he got back, all he could talk about was this girl Mira. she is his race and religion. and now i hear from other people he is marrying her next summer. he acts like he cant stop thinking about her. and up until now, i am been so important in his life. he does more for me then anyone ever has. he spends a lot of money and time on me. he is sweet. we have been intimate. we just cuddle all the time. movie nights at my house. we party together. we talk every day. he tells me every night before he goes to sleep he thinks about me. but he says now he will marry a girl from his country. every girl he ever dated before was American. some of them really f'ed him over. maybe he doesnt want an American girl anymore. idk. he is Druze religion. he says he cant marry someone american, that his mother will think he will burn in hell. but his uncle married a girl from Asia. and they all love her. he says you cant convert to Druze. maybe its just me. i am a thicker girl. this girl Mira is a stick figure. but he has always dated thicker girls. is she just cuter then me? does he love me, but he wont ever really be with me because of religion? ay yi yi...i guess i need to let go.

Mira - I dont have but these 2 pics of her, and one is not that great.

and here's me

http://i509.photobucket.com/albums/s335/aimhighalways2008/aim-1.jpg

i mean i know i am not a 10. no one is perfect. she surely isnt. i just dont understand. maybe i never will.

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18Apr/102

I WANT TO CONFIRM ABOUT A MAIL WHICH I RECEVE IN MY MAIL ?

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17Apr/105

i want to know…its that true i won 250,000dollar?

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12Apr/1013

want to trust husband again and forgive..help me please…I am so hearbroken right now..what can I do?

I'm from Asia& just got married early this year.I met my husband online back in 2004&first met him in March,2006 (in person),met him twice last year.We felt comfortable w/each other since we've been talking to each other EVERYDAY since 2004 (if you've experienced this type of relationship, you'd know how I feel).He proposed to me when we first met each other(he flew all the way to Asia).I came to the US on Jan. 2007&was very happy.Everything was wonderful but starting from 2weeks ago, I started getting jealous of his past GF #1 after she dropped him a call.He tells me to put it behind and that he loves me more than anything. But yesterday, I was on the computer and was looking at his logs(from messengers)& I read this msg w/his ex-GF#2 and they were talking dirty&obviously they've met and this was dated 4 months before we met,yes they've done u-know-what.I saw in his eyes that he was very sorry about it for not telling me but I am very upset.We love each other alot but this bothers me

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