Q&A: Guys from East Asia (China, Japan, and Korea) would you date an East Asian American girl?
Question by rashere: Guys from East Asia (China, Japan, and Korea) would you date an East Asian American girl?
The reason I ask is because ethnically we might be similar, but because of the atmosphere and culture in which we were raised, would any of you find us attractive? I'm assuming some of you have had interactions with Asian Americans, as have I with those who were mostly raised in East Asia. In my past experiences I found it somewhat hard to understand the differences and received quit a culture shock. Have any of you had similar experiences?
Best answer:
Answer by asian_man_admires_bbw
Yes, I like Asian BBW.
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Would you agree or disagree?
I answered a question here (not sure which) but I got the following email today:
"Subject: your answer is offensive
Message: in the extreme, I am a Cdn woman who was dumped by her husband and father of he children and divorced after being disabled in an accident, he didn't want the kids. I raised them as a single disabled parent, I have never been supported by a man in my life, I worked for 23 years before my accident, owned my own house, my car, my truck and had a very healthy investment portfolio and bank account.
I have never depended on any man -- I have dated very wealthy Cdn and American men in my life but prefer my independence. Most western men who cant meet a western woman's standards head to asia to get a subservient compliant asian wife who will put up with them and things a western woman wont IMO
The ones I know who are married to asian women couldn't get a woman in Canada no matter what they did - they are old, fat, ugly, stupid and disgusting, domineering and opinionated and not very smart, most are also drunks, in my experience and are considered pathetic jokes on top of it all but you are entitled to your opinion as I am to mine"
I personally have never considered myself
old (is 46 old, although I came here when I was 36... is that old?)
fat (a little cuddly maybe, but nothing excessive)
ugly (dunno, beauty is in the eye of the beholder surely?)
stupid (well I am highly educated and do a very highly responsible job)
disgusting (I do admit to breaking wind on occasions!)
domineering (no, when I got married I changed out account to a joint so that my wife had access to OUR money herself, plus put our 2 houses in HER name.. is that domineering?)
opinionated (I do call a spade, a spade, true enough)
not very smart (see previous under stupid)
a drunk (a social drinker, don't go out often and if I do its with the family to meals etc)
pathetic (definition - miserably or contemptibly inadequate. Never considered myself either)
Now (and finally) my question is, is this the general consensus of peoples (especially western women) view of western men coming to China and marrying Chinese women? Or is this an attack bourne out of some misconstrued, unintended offence, from a comment?
Just to clarify a matter, coming from one of the postings.
My wife is not a mail-order bride. I met her in China and never knew her before I came here. I have never utilised the services of any such organisation.
I married my wife for good old fashioned reasons, I met her, we dated, we fell in love, we married!
As an aside, during the SARS crisis, work was difficult to get as companies did not wish to employ people coming from this region (I work freelance). Times were hard, but she stuck by me all the way, and is now reaping the benefits.
One thing I did do, I was so offended by the abuse that the lady in question emailed me, I did respond in a very abusive and very offensive manner. That is very, very, unlike me and I regret doing it. I may have felt it, but it is not like me to actually respond in such a manner.
BSherman
Words of wisdom!
There are really some WACKOS out there! I have done the same now!
i would like to buy a blue and gold macaw in the net what and were shall i go?
i have inquired in the internet just a week ago and these are their respons:
sender #1
hello
I have both juveniles and grown ups but all of them go for 200usd .
this price is fixed but a special discount is offered in which 2 or
more of my macaws that are bought, get a 15% decrease in the
cumulative price and one is given for free.this is because i offer
promotional activities during this time of Christmas.you have to tell
me where you are located so that the transport company will tell me
exactly how much it will cost you for shipping and how long it will
take for the parrot to reach you.
So I need you to send me information concerning your location so that
you will be clarified on the shipping cost.also tell me if you need
either juveniles or grown ups, and how many of these.
thanks and hoping to hear from you soon.
sender#2
Hello, thanks for the interest to get my birds, they are very
welcoming and playful,
Do you have any Experience with Pets?
Do you want to breed them or for home use?
How many of the birds do you need? i do have 4 birds, 2 male and 2
single female.
Where are you located? yes i,m in Singapore
Are you ready to spoil my birds with love?
We are willing to offer these birds to lovely home. so if you are willing
to offer them a good home get to us
sender#3
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Minimum order is 4 eggs.
How many eggs in total do you want to buy and which of the species?
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are these all a scam?
What would your reaction be like?
Ok , so heres whats going on .
I live in singapore ( asia ) and recently , me and my friend made a bet ; whoever can get the most date with white girls before valentines day wins the bet.
Dont tell me this was a horrible bet , you`re a douche blah blah blah , cause i dont effin care ok?
So i tried to approach several white girls ( there aernt alot of them here ) and i rejected several times.
I was wondering if its because I`m chinese or something?
Or rather because i`m unattractive?
http://photos-d.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/hs191.snc3/19851_252141533870_551823870_3376309_4122443_n.jpg
And if anyone has any advice , that`d be great.
Fyi.
I speak fluent english ( I have a hongkong accent though )
suppose you found this out about your girl…how would you feel?
after working overseas in Asia for a while I've noticed that some of the local girls there like hooking up with either caucasian american or european men or asian american men. I hear guys talking about how they love coming here because it's so "easy to hook up with the girls here..." Suppose the guy was you and you find out pretty much the reason the girl likes you is because you're a "foreigner or american" Would you still want to date the girl even though it seems she doesn't care about who you are as a person but just the fact you're a foreigner? Personally I would not like the fact that it was so easy just because Im not from the country in question...it feels better for me knowing the girl likes me for me and not because of my nationality. Or would you just won't care about your dignity and just date her. What is your opinion?
What would you do in my situation? best answer gets 10 points.?
Ok , so heres whats going on .
I live in singapore ( asia ) and recently , me and my friend made a bet ; whoever can get the most date with white girls before valentines day wins the bet.
So i tried to approach several white girls ( there aernt alot of them here ) and i rejected several times.
I was wondering if its because I`m chinese or something?
Or rather because i`m unattractive?
http://photos-d.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/hs191.snc3/19851_252141533870_551823870_3376309_4122443_n.jpg
And if anyone has any advice , that`d be great.
Fyi.
I speak fluent english ( I have a hongkong accent though )
How would you react to this?
Ok , so heres whats going on .
I live in singapore ( asia ) and recently , me and my friend made a bet ; whoever can get the most date with white girls before valentines day wins the bet.
So i tried to approach several white girls ( there aernt alot of them here ) and i rejected several times.
I was wondering if its because I`m chinese or something?
Or rather because i`m unattractive?
http://photos-d.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-…
And if anyone has any advice , that`d be great.
Fyi.
I speak fluent english ( I have a hongkong accent though )
How would you react ?
Ok , so heres whats going on .
I live in singapore ( asia ) and recently , me and my friend made a bet ; whoever can get the most date with white girls before valentines day wins the bet.
Dont tell me this was a horrible bet , you`re a douche blah blah blah , cause i dont effin care ok?
So i tried to approach several white girls ( there aernt alot of them here ) and i rejected several times.
I was wondering if its because I`m chinese or something?
Or rather because i`m unattractive?
http://photos-d.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/hs191.snc3/19851_252141533870_551823870_3376309_4122443_n.jpg
And if anyone has any advice , that`d be great.
Fyi.
I speak fluent english ( I have a hongkong accent though )
I am attracted to asian guys really badly..and my parents would never approve?
I am fourteen, and as I get older of course I like guys.Well the older I get I lean toward asian guys.I don't know if it's just a phase or what.But it make's me nervous.Because, my mother dislikes them and my dad doesn't like any race.[I'm not racist.I try my hardest not to ever be] but I know if they ever found out they would never approve of it and it makes me mad.But my mother has a trust thing with all the kids,and if you break it you never get what I call her 'Special trust' back.All of her kids but me have broken it.And when I say 'special trust' I mean her believing the words you speak.You break it she won't believe you anymore.But i'm afraid if she knew I'd lose that trust.I'm obsessed with Australia and Asia and she knows it and she always complains about Asia.And I tell her not to then we bicker back and forth.So I pretty much know she'll be ashamed of me.It makes me upset, and I'm scared of telling her but I hate keeping it bottled up inside.What should I do? If I told them I already know I'd never get to date one or whatever.If it ever did happen.It's like i'm living in the 1960's. It's freaking annoying.
[SHOOT! sorry! I put this in the wrong category! i'm sorry.I looked at it wrong.]
The Third World War in February 2008. Why once the world ended I would return as the Messiah in China?
1727+"the great seventh number’s revolution"=the year of birth I returned. What is "Esdras II" ?
"Secondary Scripture"("Deuterocanon"), "Esdras II"
http://christianity.wikia.com/wiki/Deuterocanon
Jesus was born in April and I was born on 25 December, 4 January 1643 is Thursday. I was born and returned on Thursday. According to "the Hebrew Bible", the day of birth I returned can be calculated.
10.74
The great seventh number’s revolution,
It will appear a time of the year for hecatomb.
Not far from the great millennial age,
When those can enter will leave the tomb.
1.50
From the three water signs will be born a man,
who will celebrate Thursday as his holiday.
His renown, praise, rule and power will grow,
on land and sea, bringing trouble to the East.
This is evidence, If you can speak Chinese, you will not doubt my identity.
http://groups.google.com/group/the-divine-word/files
Because of me, the Chinese government has completely controlled by the United States and the European Union. China will soon implement the two-party system.
3.4
When they will be close the lunar ones will fail,
From one another not greatly distant,
Cold, dryness, danger towards the frontiers,
Even where the oracle has had its beginning.
Because of the Third World War, end of the world in 2017. Why I return as the Messiah in China? The fuse of the third world war is the war in the Taiwan Strait in February 2008. I just want to tell you, there is a great plague coming, more than two thirds of humanity will be died. The upcoming terrorist deal with a major disaster. So I spam again and again.
2.46
After great trouble for humanity, a greater one is prepared,
The Great Mover renews the ages.
Rain, blood, milk, famine, steel and plague,
Is the heavens fire seen, a long spark running.
5.32
Where all is good, the Sun all beneficial and the Moon
Is abundant, its ruin approaches:
From the sky it advances to change your fortune.
In the same state as the seventh rock.
10.42
The humane realm of Angelican offspring,
It will cause its realm to hold to peace and union.
War half-captive in its enclosure,
For long will it cause them to maintain peace.
3.92
The world near the last period,
Saturn will come back again late.
Empire transferred towards the Dusky nation,
The eye plucked out by the Goshawk at Narbonne.
2.41
The great star will burn for seven days,
The cloud will cause two suns to appear:
The big mastiff will howl all night
When the great pontiff will change country.
The last time spam. I am Isaac Newton. I will appear in Jerusalem. According to "the Hebrew Bible", my date of birth can be calculated. I am a hero. I will tell you what is "Armageddon". I think that Chinese people like dogs. I will take the yellow people and the black people into concentration camps. When you see me, I will make you feel speechless. I will take Barack Obama and Condoleezza Rice into concentration camps, I think that the black people and Latinos like dogs.
1.50
From the three water signs will be born a man,
who will celebrate Thursday as his holiday.
His renown, praise, rule and power will grow,
on land and sea, bringing trouble to the East.
4.99
The valiant elder son of the King’s daughter,
He will hurl back the Celts very far.
Such that he will cast thunderbolts, so many in such an array,
Few and distant, then deep into the Hesperias.
3.60
Throughout all Asia great proscription,
Even in Mysia, Lycia and Pamphilia.
Blood will be shed because of the absolution
Of a young evil one filled with felony.
"Cities of Babylon" refers to China. From January 2007 to October 2008 on Radio Free Asia, I am forced China to become a country ruled by law, I half way to terminate the third world war, the Chinese government Immediately wanted to kill me. The first time I listen to Radio Free Asia in 1999. If you doubt my identity, please look at "secondary scripture". The Chinese government wanted to kill me, I am sorry for my safety, I do not have so much time to play in English, Chinese writing the article far faster than the English, written Chinese characters dragged into a google translation to English made up of. The first time I listen to Radio Free Asia in 1999. When I listen to Radio Free Asia again, I do not have so much time to play in English. I want to kill these dogs.
http://groups.google.com/group/the-divine-word/files
2.27
The divine word will be struck from the sky,
One who cannot proceed any further.
The secret closed up with the revelation,
Such that they will march over and ahead.
4.56
After the victory of the raving tongue,
The spirit tempered in tranquillity and repose:
Throughout the conflict the bloody victor makes orations,
Roasting the tongue and the flesh and the bones.
4.31
The Moon in the full of night over the high mountain,
The new sage with a lone brain sees it.
By his disciples invited to be immortal,
Eyes to the south. Hands in bosoms,
2.30
One who the infernal gods of Hannibal
Will cause to be reborn, terror of mankind.
Never more horror and never more worse of Journals
His audio will come to Romans through Babel.
http://www.rfa.org/mandarin/zhuanlan/tingzhongrexian
More:
http://groups.google.com/group/sci.math/browse_thread/thread/bc9bde46b7856bfd
Isaac Newton
From 25 December 2008 to 6 January 2009
